Betapa
mudahnya membuat teman, itu yang muncul di kepala gw saat itu, kedekatan emosional tentang satu hal
begitu mudah terbangun, tanpa perlu proses yang terlalu cepat, akhirnya kita
berdiskusi hampir selama 2 jam, most of them is about life.
Karena
Malam itu lg coba koneksi jaringan
internet di laptop yg gw instal, maka dengan sedikit qouta yg tersisa gw buka
YM gw. Beberapa detik sebelum sign out tiba - tiba, seseorang menyapa :
“nice pic bro”
“thanks man”
“i was reading your article, it was really usefull, i mean that
is the simple basic thing of your daily life, but it is really important, at
the end it is all about communication”
“i am talking with philosoph here”
“hahaha no, just an opinion”
“when you communicate you are facing these 3 layers of Human :
1. ego, 2. logic, 3 emotion, ok ?”
“that is correct, i always believe that all human are unique,
their surroundings and their past made who they are today, just like
behaviourism theory”
“well, ego is unique, logic will be depend on your education
background, but emotion is the SAME, it is your BIRTH GIFT, the unique is how
to trigger human’s emotion”
I always enjoy
discussion about life, apalagi karena
akhir akhir ini gw lagi nyari jawaban tentang banyak pertanyaan, hidup yang
terasa begitu kosong atau rutinitas yang seolah menjadi penjara yang mengekang,
hebatnya adalah Tuhan tahu persis setiap kegelisahan manusia, tidak satu detik
pun manusia lepas dari pengawasannya, itu lah yang membuat manusia menjadi
spesial.
Dia tahu ketika manusia sedang sedih, sedang bahagia, sedang bimbang, dan
dengan penuh kasih sayang dan bijaksana, dia “mengalirkan” jawaban
atas banyak pertanyaan yang menumpuk disekeliling kita. Iya, bukan memberikan
lho, tapi mengalirkan seperti sungai jawaban atas pertanyaan disekeliling kita,
HEBAT bukan ???
lalu kenapa selama ini kita selalu sulit menangkap jawaban yang sebenarnya
tercecer di sekitar kita ini ?
because we choose not to BELIEVE ! our ego and our logic snapped our brain
everytime the answer come, the question “is it possible ?” “it is not gonna
work” ” come on man, are you dreaming ?”
Those question put your POWERFULL sit in the
corner, because everytime they READY to FIGHT for you, you told him to shut up
!!
I always believe that there is this GREAT
POWER that always surround us, This power is SOOO GREAT and it surround
everybody. No matter who you are, what you do, where are you from, This GREAT
POWER didn’t really care, What HE knows, HE JUST HAVE TO ACCOMPANY YOU WHEREVER
YOU WILL GO, he is so LOYAL to you, he will never let you go…. do you notice
that ?
When we are little our
mind is so free, we scared out of NOTHING, when you are a baby, you learn how
to walk, do you count how many times you have fallen ? you don’t even care that
what do you walk on, you DON’T CARE whether it is grass, soil or parquet, what
you know you just WALK, you are MOVING FORWARD…
When we grow up ,
Everyone around us put this chip and we are forced to believe that everything
they say is true, in science they call it MEMETICS. We listen and read
advertisement everyday, they suggest to us what is better for us, that your
clothes are so bad so you CHANGE it, you should buy THE NEWEST HAND PHONE to be
considered cool, you should be HANDSOME to get girls, these VIRUSES of MIND control you without
even you realize it.
A higher life purpose for yourself
that maximizes your fulfilment and enjoyment in life, just forget about all advertisement that said
you have to be handsome to get girls, just forget that you have to ride porsche
when you wanna have a chat with someone, just forget that you should have
dinner in fancy restaurant to impress a girl, This time, this virus of mind, we
FIGHT BACK for sure !!! You know what FIND your HIGHER LIFE PURPOSE, things
that DRIVE your emotion, THINGS that you REALLY REALLY WANTED in LIFE, no
matter HOW SILLY IT IS FOR SOMEONE ELSE, but if that thing maximizes your life,
DO IT !!!
Hidup
kadang ga selalu baik…gagal masuk SMA unggulan, gagal kuliah di universitas
unggulan, beberapa kegiatan
kemahasiswaan yang digagalkan, bahkan
penelitian ulang setelah sidang akhir skripsi…Hidup bahkan bukan hanya tidak
bersikap baik tetapi KEJAM !!!
I will tell you a
secret my friends…EVERYBODY HAVE EVER FAILED IN THEIR LIFE , NOT ONCE BUT SOOOO
MANY TIMES !!! That what life is all about, YOU FAILED, YOU LEARN AND YOU MOVE
ON…Masih inget ga ? You should set
higher purpose in your life…THAT HIGHER PURPOSE IN YOUR LIFE IS YOUR DREAM !!! Mimpi itulah yang nantinya akan merubah
hidup kita…Kalau orang tidak pernah bermimpi untuk terbang tentu tidak akan
pernah ada pesawat…kalau orang tidak pernah bermimpi untuk bisa berkomunikasi
di jarak yang ribuan kilometer tentu tak pernah ada telepon…Ketakutan orang
untuk BERMIMPI membuat hidup menjadi mononton dan begitu MEMBOSANKAN…Beberapa
kali saya mendengar cerita-cerita teman yang mengeluh karena hidupnya hanya
seolah menjadi rangkaian rutinitas saja…rumah – kantor – rumah…kerja – tidur –
kerja…and after sometimes, these people come to me and said “WHAT A
BORING LIFE !!!”
Set a higher purpose in Life…A courage to
DREAM, will suddenly bring passion to your life…peluang baru HARUS diciptakan,
STRATEGI BARU segera dirancang, TIME TABLE baru tercipta, tiba tiba saja HIDUP
MENJADI BERUBAH DINAMIS !!! for me DREAM is THE MOST POWERFUL TOOL IN LIFE,
because you know what, IT CHANGES YOUR LIFE !!
Berhenti dan menyerah hanyalah untuk
pecundang…PEMENANG adalah ketika semua orang berkata CUKUP , dia mengambil
insiatif melangkah satu INCI lebih banyak …Hanya satu INCI tidak banyak…tapi
satu INCI itulah yang membedakan Pemenang, Pahlawan, Ksatria atau apapun
namanya dari yang lain… hanya satu INCI lebih banyak…
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